• How God Used My Dentist to Save My Soul

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    How God Used My Dentist to Save My Soul

    I was hurt by the Church years ago. I had no idea how to handle or work through it at the time, so I reciprocated in kind and left. I left the faith behind and spent the next few years living a spectacularly-sinful life that could give the original prodigal son a run for his…

  • Putting one Foot in Front of the Other: Walking with Jesus Made Simple

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    Putting one Foot in Front of the Other: Walking with Jesus Made Simple

    Being a disciple of Jesus has its good days and bad days. Sometimes walking with him is smooth like butter while other days involve resisting the urge to pull our hair out and scream in frustration. There are times when we question our faith and times we doubt it altogether. The highs, lows, ebbs and…

  • Parents of Wayward Kids- be Encouraged. Jesus was Full of Surprises too… Just ask Mary.

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    Parents of Wayward Kids- be Encouraged. Jesus was Full of Surprises too… Just ask Mary.

    I often wonder what went through the heart and mind of Jesus while he spent time in the temple as a kid. He was just a boy, yet he was among clergy and religious leaders who were his children. He created them, he loved them, and he knew them. They may have been amazed at…

  • Advent Week 4: Following God’s Promises Leads Us to Incredible Places

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    Advent Week 4: Following God’s Promises Leads Us to Incredible Places

    Mary must have had a lot on her mind during her long and uncomfortable journey to visit Elizabeth and Zechariah. She was a pregnant teen who encountered an angel that made grandiose promises about her future. Elizabeth was a pregnant, older woman, who had an encounter with an angel too. Surely they had a lot…

  • Be a Christmas Miracle by Preparing the Way of the Lord in the Heart

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    Be a Christmas Miracle by Preparing the Way of the Lord in the Heart

    God used John the Baptist to prepare hearts for the arrival of Jesus, and he did it in ways that made sense to people. He didn’t tell folks to offer sacrifices, follow formulas or recite endless prayers for their sins. He didn’t tell people to fast, mourn or mortify themselves in order to make amends…

  • Advent is the Season of Faith, Hope and Love for the Tenderhearted

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    Advent is the Season of Faith, Hope and Love for the Tenderhearted

    John the Baptist came to tenderize hearts and break them open for Jesus. His ministry was brief, but it was also powerful, effective and necessary. Sometimes I wonder about what he taught, or what people discussed or experienced when they gathered together. Sure, we all know the message was to repent and be baptized, but…

  • Let Your Light Shine This Advent

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    Let Your Light Shine This Advent

    Jesus loves us more than we can possibly imagine. Sometimes it’s hard to appreciate God’s love because we live in a broken world, and that brokenness inhibits us from dwelling in that love all of the time. Yet, that doesn’t diminish God’s love for all of us- Remember, God is pure, uninhibited love. Jesus came…

  • Not Trusting God Has Real Consequences: Lessons from my own Trainwreck

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    Not Trusting God Has Real Consequences: Lessons from my own Trainwreck

    I returned to the Church a couple of years ago after a long, winding, painfully-horrific journey into the wilderness and back. My sins cost me more than a decade of my life, and I have to live with the consequences of that every single day. When I came home, I was expecting to make my…

  • What Does the Perfect Steak and a Healthy Soul Have in Common?

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    What Does the Perfect Steak and a Healthy Soul Have in Common?

    Cooking the perfect steak involves a few key elements: Quality meat, good seasoning, the right amount of fat, stable heat and perfect timing. It also needs to rest for a few minutes, and believe it or not, resting the steak is the most-important step. Anthony Bourdain once said that the best way to screw up…

  • The Wilderness Album: Healing Music for Those Harmed by the Their Church

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    The Wilderness Album: Healing Music for Those Harmed by the Their Church

    When I wrote The Wilderness in 2022, I was going though my time in the dark night of the soul, with no end in sight. Each song was a way of processing my lostness, praying through it, and trying to find God in the midst of that miserable stage of my life. I wish I…

  • Gianna’s Lullaby: Dedicated to a Saint who Adopted Me and My Parish

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    Gianna’s Lullaby: Dedicated to a Saint who Adopted Me and My Parish

    One of the most beautiful parts of our faith is knowing that we are connected with those who have gone before us even though they are no longer with us. We really can have relationships with saints, and we build them just like we do with those among the living- by spending time with them…